Kids and teens lamenting the end of summer often admit they look forward to a new school year. It’s their opportunity for a fresh start, new goals, organization and a blank slate. A “do-over” if need be. The new school year also presents an opportunity for us parents to do the same. Here are some …
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What not to say to your child
Writer and mom shares 9 things you should not say to your children.
D Magazine
I was interviewed for articles in this month’s D Magazine along with their summer medical edition. The annual medical edition is print only and not available online but it’s a separate, longer article where I suggested they also talk with Ian Kinsler of the Texas Rangers. They contacted me in the spring looking for a mental health …
Put down the phone
Tips for all of us technology-addicted parents.
Building your child’s self-compassion
Principles for developing self-compassion in your child.
Self-Compassion may be the most important life skill
I am a big believer that the self esteem movement has caused much more harm than good over the past 30-40 years. Today’s college students according to researchers are more narcissistic than ever. Self-compassion is a new, budding area of psychological research. A focus on self esteem alone results in increasing neuroticism, emotional fragility and …
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Much more than you think…
ADD/ADHD in adults.Austic Spectrum Disorders in children.
What I’m currently reading…
I highly recommend “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” by Amy Chua. It’s a fascinating yet controversial look at the child-rearing differences between Western parents and their Chinese counterparts.Western parents try to respect their children’s individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions, supporting their choices, and providing positive reinforcement and a nurturing environment. By …
Are you an extreme sports parent?
Too much specialization in sports at an early age comes with multiple risks such as injury, burn out, stress and anxiety.
Are you extreme?
I like what this Psychology professor says in the following article. “You know you’re an extreme parent when you’re convinced your second-grade son is having more fun doing the Kumon advanced math program than watching Saturday morning cartoons.” Kathy Hirsh-Pasek states that there are two competing developmental views of children. 1) A child is an …