Donations were record setting!

Thanks to your gifts The Overnight Walk raised a record setting $3.32 million for The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention! Every year suicide claims more lives than war, murder, and natural disasters combined, and yet suicide prevention doesn’t get anywhere near the funding given to other leading causes of death. In Texas alone suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death among youth. We were privileged to join thousands from across the country to walk 17 miles overnight in order to show the world there is hope for those affected by suicide. With your donations and support we are going to change the conversation about mental health and put an end to this tragic loss of life.

We’re doing it again! This time my son, Kash and I are participating in the Out of the Darkness Overnight Walk in Boston – an amazing event where participants from all over the country join together to walk 16-18 miles through the night on June 22.   

We’re fundraising to benefit the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Proceeds will help those affected by suicide and mental health conditions by supporting research, advocacy, survivor resources, education, and awareness programs. AFSP has set a BIG goal to reduce the suicide rate 20% by the year 2025, and we are proud to be part of that mission.

You can help us with a donation no matter how small (even $5 or $10) or share with your family and friends. Thank you for your support in a cause we believe in. There are 132 suicides per day. It’s one of the leading causes of death especially for those under the age of 24. However, 94% of adults surveyed in the U.S. believe suicide can be prevented. We hope to save lives and bring hope to those affected by suicide. 

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My son, Kash and I volunteered at NAMI Walks of North Texas. This was a tremendous fundraiser event at the Frisco Roughriders baseball stadium. Proceeds benefitted NAMI North Texas (National Alliance on Mental Illness). NAMI North Texas is a grassroots organization that provides education, support, advocacy, and public awareness to improve the lives of people living with mental health conditions and their family members. I encourage everyone to check it out and support this organization for the phenomenal work they do for those afflicted with mental health conditions.

A year after the American Psychological Association issued a landmark health advisory on social media use in adolescence, they are urging legislators and technology companies to take greater measures to protect adolescent mental health. The APA says that social media platforms are intended for adults and not “inherently suitable for youth.” Technology companies have made few meaningful changes since this critical advisory was released last year. Social media creates too many opportunities for endless scrolling and push notifications according to the APA. This is risky for developing brains that are less able to disengage from addictive experiences while being more sensitive to distractions. “The platforms seem to be designed to keep kids engaged for as long as possible, to keep them on there. And kids are just not able to resist those impulses as effectively as adults,” according to APA chief science officer Mitch Prinstein. He added that more than half of teens report at least one symptom of clinical dependency on social media. They are urging social media companies to make fundamental design changes to protect youth.

Over the past decade evidence has been building about the potential negative psychological outcomes of social media use for teenagers. A more recent research study of American adolescents ages 12 to 15 suggest those who use social media for over three hours per day were twice as likely to suffer negative mental health outcomes including depression and anxiety. Yale Medicine has a guide for parents about how social media influences your teen’s mental health. This guide includes: 1) Determining the age your child will have access to social media; 2) Keeping devices out of the bedroom; 3) Keeping the lines of communication open with your teen and allowing them to make mistakes; 4) Being mindful of your approach when talking to your teen and, 5) Following the rules yourself. The last one might be the most challenging!

Results from the CDC’s 2021 Youth Risk Behavior Survey recently published show a disturbing trend. Almost 3 in 5 adolescent girls (57%) said they felt “persistently sad or hopeless” – the highest rate in a decade. And 30% of girls said they have seriously considered dying by suicide — a number that’s risen 60% over the past 10 years. The survey, which has been conducted every two years for 30 years, includes responses from 17,232 high school students in the U.S. When researchers looked at gender differences girls were fairing especially poorly compared to boys. However, there were a few reasons to be optimistic as alcohol and marijuana use continues to decline among teenagers compared to a decade earlier in 2011. NBC News interviewed nine girls about the CDC’s findings. These girls suggested social media comparison, the Pandemic, school shootings and gender discrimination were behind these alarming numbers. They also suggested there is considerably less stigma about mental health in their generation so teenagers are comfortable talking about it openly and possibly reporting it to the CDC.

In the 6 months after launch the 988 Mental Health and Suicide Line has recorded over 2 million calls, text and chat messages. It could not come at a more ideal time as depression rates among children and adults continue to rise. The volume is more than officials could have anticipated and has led to an expansion of it’s services to unique demographic groups. The flood of calls and text messages suggests people are connecting to supports and services rather than struggling on their own which is reason for optimism! The original $1 Billion in federal funding approved by Congress has helped more people than expected so my hope is that it continues to expand. With the beginning of the new year the line is already experiencing a 30% increase from 2022.

Today the National Suicide and Crisis hotline changes its number to 988 to make the system more accessible. One can text or call this number and be routed to a mental health counselor within 60-90 seconds. There is hope that this is the beginning of a bigger push for mental health care access, especially in Texas. Mental Health America ranked Texas last in the U.S. for access to such care in 2022. Each year, more people die by suicide in the U.S. than in car crashes. I am relieved and encouraged by this transition because it comes at a time when more people are experiencing mental health crises.

From 2009 to 2021 the percent of high school students reporting “persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness” rose from 26 percent to 44 percent according to a CDC study. This is the highest level of sadness ever recorded. Derek Thompson writes in The Atlantic after analyzing CDC data that almost every measure of mental health is getting worse, for every teenage demographic and it’s happening all over the country. However, sadness among white teens is rising faster than among other groups. He proposes four reasons for these increases: social-media use, sociality is down, the world is stressful and there is more news about these stressors and modern parenting strategies. The world is overwhelming to not only teens but for moms and dads as well. These societal trends amplified by a global pandemic and social isolation makes the dramatic rise in teenage sadness not that mysterious or surprising.

New research indicates suicidal thoughts are on the rise among teens and young adults. The February 3rd issue of the Wall Street Journal (Apple News) recently published a great article titled “What Parents Can Do When Kids Have Suicidal Thoughts” by Andrea Petersen. Undoubtedly this trend has grown during the pandemic. A June 2020 survey reported that 25.5% of 18-24 year olds had seriously considered suicide during the last 30 days. Weekly emergency room visits for suspected suicide rose 50.6% among 12-17 year old girls in March 2021 when compared to the same period in 2019. Certain behaviors are linked to an imminent risk of a child’s suicide attempt which includes a sharp rise in the time spent at home and a dramatic increase in the use of negative words in texts and social-media posts. Most kids don’t act on those thoughts but we can better understand those most at risk and what we can do to help. Parents can reduce risk by openly asking teens about their feelings. A conversation you should have many times. Warning signs to take seriously include increased alcohol or drug use, withdrawing from usual activities, changes in sleep patterns and other behavioral changes.